Securing Your Financial Future as a Widow or Divorcee with Wes Cuprill
Are you a woman facing the financial challenges of divorce or widowhood? In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by Wes Cuprill, who shares how his family’s experiences inspired him to help women find financial security during life’s toughest transitions. He explains why women often face unique hurdles, like longer life expectancies and higher healthcare costs, and stresses the importance of a personalized, values-based approach to financial planning. Wes also warns against one-size-fits-all advisors who push products over real solutions and highlights the power of working with someone who understands your goals. Ready to take control of your financial future with confidence? This conversation will inspire you to start today. Standout Quotes: “Financial advisors, many of whom we work with, will actively say they don’t like working with women, which blows my mind. One, it’s incredibly sexist to say it. And then two, on top of that, women are our best clients.” “It’s our job to help, not just from the numbers standpoint, but also to give them peace of mind. I think that’s one thing that is maybe misunderstood with advisors. Yeah, we’re numbers guys, certainly, but we try to be more than that.” “Women will answer with things like it means financial freedom. It means I get to spend more time with my kids doing the things I always wanted to do.” “We don’t believe in pushing a product first; we believe in truly holistic financial planning. You can go buy a product on your own. You don’t need us to invest your money. You don’t need us to buy an annuity or anything like that.” Key Takeaways: Assess your current financial advisor – Do they truly understand and cater to the unique needs of women? Look for an advisor who takes a holistic, values-based approach, not just a one-size-fits-all product pusher. Confront your financial fears head-on – Whether it’s uncertainty about your resources or feeling overwhelmed by the planning process, don’t let those emotions paralyze you. An experienced advisor can provide the guidance and support to overcome those hurdles. Reflect on your retirement vision – What does a fulfilling, financially secure retirement look like to you? Dig deeper than just the numbers and get clear on your personal values and goals. Embrace a long-term, patient mindset – Resist the temptation of chasing get-rich-quick schemes or market timing. Proven, disciplined investment strategies built on sound principles are the path to sustainable wealth. Seek an advisor who can be a true partner – Look for someone who will not only crunch the numbers, but also provide the emotional coaching and accountability to help you stay the course, no matter what life throws your way. Episode Timeline: [00:03] Introducing Wes Cuprill [01:51] How Family History Inspired Wes’ Mission [03:50] Common Challenges Widowed Women Face with Finances [06:41] Unique Financial Needs Women Should Plan For [09:45] Tackling Retirement Hurdles for Baby Boomers [12:16] Why Holistic Financial Planning Is the Real Solution [15:10] How to Find a Financial Advisor Who Truly Gets You [18:06] Crypto Risks and Emotional Traps in Investing [20:18] Breaking Stereotypes and Empowering Women to Invest [23:09] Free Resources to Build Your Financial Confidence Learn more about Wes Cuprill on his socials: Website: https://moneyandclarity.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/advisorarchitect/ WWW Podcast: https://feeds.buzzsprout.com/2399284.rss Suddenly Single: A Divorced Woman’s Guide to Financial Security: https://www.amazon.com/Suddenly-Single-Divorced-Financial-Security/dp/B0CFCYSN5J Unexpectedly Single: A Widow’s Guide to a Secure Retirement: https://www.amazon.com/Unexpectedly-Single-Widows-Secure-Retirement/dp/B0CWL762PB Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
Unlocking Secrets to Love and Attachment with Bev Mitelman
Struggling to understand your relationship patterns? In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, relationship expert Bev Mitelman joins Maria to discuss how attachment styles, shaped by early experiences, impact our adult relationships. Bev breaks down the differences between secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles, explaining how they influence dating and intimacy. She shares practical tips for recognizing your own attachment style and offers advice for healthier, more fulfilling connections. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns and build stronger relationships, tune in for insightful guidance on understanding yourself and your partner better. Standout Quotes: “There are many scenarios that can create a break in safety for a child, leading to the development of patterns we call insecure attachment. These patterns get imprinted into our subconscious mind and follow us into adulthood, resulting in highly prescriptive behaviors.” “Women have a strong propensity to emotionally bond with their sexual partner, especially if the sex is good.” “Desire needs time to grow. Sometimes, we’re so impatient that we don’t allow these feelings to go through their natural cycles.” “I have no issues with people living the way they want to. Where I get really aggravated is that we have now indoctrinated an entire generation of children and started to medicalize them to change genders.” “People who are anxious may weaponize sex, using it as a means to gain approval, reassurance, and closeness. Anxious individuals often desire closeness with their partner.” Key Takeaways: Reflect on your own attachment style and consider how it impacts your current relationships. Are there patterns you recognize that could use attention or adjustment? Communicate openly with partners about the meaning and expectations you associate with intimacy. Consider asking them, “What does sex mean to you?” Take note of the differences in emotional bonding between genders and how they might affect your relationship dynamics. If feeling anxious in a relationship, assess whether you use intimacy to seek reassurance. Consider healthier ways to nurture connection and security. Explore attachment-related resources, such as quizzes or workshops, to deepen your understanding and improve relationship skills. Episode Timeline: [00:03] Introducing Bev Mitelman [02:02] Bev’s Journey from Personal Growth to Relationship Coach [01:54] Exploring the Roots of Attachment Trauma [02:52] How Attachment Styles Shape Adult Relationships [04:41] Understanding Gender Differences in Attachment [07:42] Overcoming Challenges in Today’s Dating Scene [16:34] How Generations View Therapy and Healing [18:06] The Role of Social Media in Mental Health [19:40] Discussing the Controversy Around Gender Identity [22:48] Attachment Styles in LGBTQ+ Relationships Explained [30:11] Final Thoughts Learn more about Bev Mitelman on her socials: Website: https://securelyloved.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bevmitelman/ Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150