A Different Stigma, A Different Connection, and A New Connection with Paul Zolman

In this episode of the Live Your SPAlife Podcast, Diane is joined by Paul Zolman. Paul is a self-proclaimed “Love Language Linguist”. He is also a speaker, author, educator, veteran, and entrepreneur. In his book “Role of Love,” Paul explores the concept of love languages and their impact on our lives, examining how these languages can be used to create positive change and transform relationships. Through examples and stories of individuals who have applied these principles in their own lives, the book highlights the transformative power of love and how it can enhance our well-being and improve our connections with others.

Important topics discussed:

• Role of Love
• Love Languages
• Paul’s story
• Paul’s marriage
• Developing the habit for love languages
• Receiving people
• Transformation in Paul’s personal life
• Changes
• Paul’s advice

Quotes:

[04:33] “I’ve learned that love is directional. You really can only give it away and only react when it comes your way.”

[27:07] “Find that commonality and those bonds of love that are common with the people that you love.”

[27:19] “Whatever we magnify is going to grow bigger. So if you find the things that you love about a person, rather than the things you dislike about that person, those things that you love are going to grow bigger.”

Links and Resources:

Role of Love website: https://roleoflove.com/