Navigate Life’s Challenges with Confidence with Jesse Oakley
Jesse Oakley is a longtime member of Toastmasters International who has leveraged the organization to improve his public speaking skills, find his wife, and even write a book called “Greetings, Happy People.” In this episode, he shares his inspiring stories and insights on how Toastmasters has impacted his personal and professional life. Standout Quotes: “If you are yourself, then you can realize that no matter what happens, whether the date goes well or not, it’s a learning experience.” – Jesse Oakley “Find a common interest or hobby with your partner, as that can be the bridge to connect and communicate with each other.” – Jesse Oakley “Communicating with one person can be just as difficult as speaking to a large audience.” – Jesse Oakley Key Takeaways: Find a local club to improve your public speaking and communication skills. Reflect on your own goals and dreams, and consider how you can turn them into a tangible project or book. When going on a first date, focus on being authentic and true to yourself, rather than trying to impress the other person. Embrace any rejections as learning opportunities. Identify a hobby, interest, or skill that you share with a potential partner, and use that as a way to build a stronger connection and facilitate better communication. Practice having difficult conversations, such as delivering tragic news to a loved one, by considering how you would approach the situation with empathy and composure. Episode Timeline: 0:00:02 – Introduction and guest introduction 0:01:54 – Jesse’s book “Greetings, Happy People” and the story behind it 0:04:52 – How Jesse met his wife Dana through Toastmasters 0:08:41 – Jesse’s experience serving on the Toastmasters International Board of Directors 0:12:33 – Advice on being authentic and embracing rejection on first dates 0:15:18 – Jesse’s journey into public speaking and Toastmasters 0:21:11 – The most challenging communication experience of Jesse’s life Resources: Greetings Happy People by Jesse Oakley on Amazon – https://www.amazon.com/Greetings-Happy-People-Jesse-Oakley/dp/1456819763 Visit Toastmasters International – www.toastmasters.org Jesse Oakley on LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesseoakleyiii/
Divorce & Money: Expert Tips to Protect Your Wealth with Jamie Lima
Divorce can be a financial minefield, leaving many feeling lost and overwhelmed. How prepared are you to navigate the complex world of asset division, hidden accounts, and lifestyle changes that come with ending a marriage? In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by Jamie Lima, a certified divorce financial analyst. He sheds light on the often-overlooked financial aspects of divorce. Drawing from experience and expertise, he advises consulting a financial expert early, staying informed about your financial situation, planning for post-divorce needs, managing emotions, and much more! With divorce rates still high and financial abuse a real concern, are you equipped to protect your financial future? Standout Quotes: “You should know where every account is, which custodian it is with, which bank you’re banking with, what the retirement plans look like, and all that stuff.” “In divorce, you’re never going to have the same lifestyle; it’s always going to be different.” “The whole purpose of having alimony and us fighting for it is to give you that bridge to get to the other side and into your new life.” “The last thing you want to do is have to call little Johnny and little Susie and tell them that you’re going to be living on their couch at the age of 85.” Key Takeaways: Take inventory of all your financial accounts, assets, and debts. Make sure you know where everything is and have access to all relevant information. Fill out a “My Priorities” worksheet to clarify what’s most important to you in a potential divorce scenario, both for yourself and your spouse. Schedule a complimentary consultation with a certified divorce financial analyst to understand your options before involving attorneys or the court system. Join a divorce support group or online community to gain insights and ask questions anonymously. Create a post-divorce financial plan that accounts for your new lifestyle, future goals, and potential long-term financial needs. Episode Timeline: [00:03] Introducing Jamie Lima [03:49] Navigating Divorce Finances [08:31] Uncovering Hidden Assets in Divorce [12:51] Maintaining Your Lifestyle Post-Divorce [18:08] Smart Financial Planning During Divorce [22:01] Expert Financial Planning for Divorce Learn more about Jamie Lima on his socials: Website: https://allegiantds.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielima Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/preparingfinanciallyfordivorce Broke Up, Not Broke(n) Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/broke-up-not-broke-n/id1743860479 Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
How to Find Your Masculine Presence and Improve Relationships with Jason Lange
In today’s evolving cultural landscape, simply being a “tough guy” who doesn’t show weakness isn’t enough. Both men and women are seeking partners who can lead powerfully while staying grounded in their humanity. But how do we get there? How do we balance masculine and feminine within, while bringing our best selves to our relationships? And how do we release what’s holding us back on a physical and emotional level? In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by men’s coach Jason Lang. They will be talking about Jason’s personal journey to intimacy and emotional connection, and his work helping men cultivate presence, polarity, shadow integration for healthy relationships, and much more! Standout Quotes: “Many of us men don’t know how to do that because, historically, men have been rewarded for being disembodied.” “As a man, I have feminine energy, and as a woman, women have masculine energy. Part of what’s been shifting in our culture is the great rebalancing of these energies.” “What’s important is for there to be “juice” in a relationship. You have to play with those energies. It doesn’t always have to be the same, but you can experiment and find the balance that works for both partners.” Key Takeaways: Evaluate your level of presence and embodiment. How “in your head” are you, and how can you better connect to your physical body and emotions? Consider where you may be disconnecting from your feminine side or energy. How can you better integrate both masculine and feminine? Ask yourself what unresolved emotions you may be holding in your physical body. Make a effort to prioritize self-care, relationships and emotional intimacy beyond just work and tasks. Episode Timeline: [00:00] Introducing Jason Lange [04:42] Exploring men’s emotional expression and body connection [10:07] Personal development and relationship dynamics for men [15:20] Embodiment, polarity, and shadow work in men’s relationships [21:12] Emotional healing and growth through energy work and retreats for men Learn more about Jason Lange on his socials: Website: https://www.jasonlange.me Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
Prioritizing Self-Worth to Leave an Unhealthy Relationship with Dana Diaz
Are you trapped in a relationship devoid of respect and love? Do you feel alone and unsure how to break free from toxic patterns? Dana Diaz knows these struggles all too well. For over 25 years, Dana endured abuse, control and isolation in her marriage to a narcissist. Her childhood had primed her for such a dysfunctional relationship, leaving her without the self-worth to see her own value. Physical illness was what finally woke Dana to take action. In this powerful episode of the True Love Knots Podcast with Maria, Dana guides us through her harrowing journey – from the subtle signs of narcissism she ignored early on, to the suffocating isolation and daily battles just to maintain her sanity. It’s time to value yourself – you deserve healthy relationships built on mutual care, trust and respect. Stay tuned! Standout Quotes: “I think that we tend to hold ourselves back. It’s really important to stay open, know what you want, and just want more than what you have.” “Love doesn’t always mean the two people should be together.” “You need to give your children that space, that respect, to make their own decisions. That way, they will learn to trust themselves, trust their instincts, and trust that they can make the decision.” Key Takeaways: Ask yourself what you truly want in a relationship and your life. Are your needs and desires being met? If not, it may be time to reconsider your situation. Learn the signs of narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships. Take Dana’s quiz to help identify if you may be in an unhealthy situation. Value yourself. Don’t stay in a relationship that involves any form of abuse – physical, emotional, psychological. You deserve to feel safe, respected and cared for. Set boundaries and don’t isolate yourself. Surround yourself with a supportive community who has your best interests at heart. Consider journaling about your past relationships and childhood experiences to gain insight into patterns and determine your needs for healthy connections going forward Episode Timeline: [00:02] Introducing Dana Diaz [04:06] Codependency, abuse, and building self-worth [09:14] Mental health effects of narcissistic abuse [13:47] Parenting, coping with divorce, and overcoming childhood trauma [18:20] Finding love after leaving a toxic marriage Learn more about Dana Diaz on her socials: Website: https://danasdiaz.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DanaSDiazAuthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danas.diaz Amazon Books: https://www.amazon.com/Gasping-Air-Stranglehold-Narcissistic-Abuse-ebook/dp/B0C74T9DRM Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
Learn to Identify Red Flags Early and Find a Loving Partner – Tips from Dating Coach Evan Mark Katz
In this episode of the True Love Knots, we have Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach based in Los Angeles. He coaches successful women on dating and relationships. He started his career writing one of the first books about online dating in the early 2000s. Today, Evan and Maria discussed the unique challenges that strong, successful women face in dating. They emphasized the importance of personal growth, self-awareness, and a step-by-step approach to dating and relationships. Tune in to learn more! Standout Quotes: “Good relationships are fundamentally easy. And they require effort, like a garden you need to keep watering.” “You can’t have a relationship if you don’t have chemistry. No chemistry no sex is a nonstarter for a long-term relationship. The problem is the beginning, it overrides everything.” “My job is to provide some modeling and then mirror this behavior back to people. I try to be a good, solid man in the lives of women who don’t have much experience with good men.” “If anything, I want fewer marriages and better marriages. I don’t want people to get divorced. While dating, I want to ensure that people can identify this as a future divorce.” “No one has to change who they are to find love. They need to fix their broken man picker.” “Everybody deserves love, but they need to love themselves first.”[Maria Romano] Key Takeaways: Focus on how potential partners treat you over time, not just initial chemistry and infatuation. Pay attention to red flags. Gain life experience through dating different people before rushing into an engagement or marriage. Take time to learn about yourself. Identify what you want in a long-term partner and healthy relationship rather than settling for less. Work to attract quality matches. Consider coaching or therapy if you feel stuck in a cycle of unhealthy dating patterns. Help is available to improve your relationship skills. Make self-care and personal growth ongoing priorities rather than blocks to finding love. Committed partnerships require two whole people. Episode Timeline: [00:52] Meet Evan Marc Katz [3:39] What is the success rate of women nowadays? [5:18] What is the difference between old and new-generation dating? [11:51] Why long-term relationships are beyond chemistry? [16:12] Why should you gain life experience first before being married? [18:44] How do you break bad relationship habits? [21:19] Why good relationships should feel easy and take effort, not work? Learn more about Evan Marc Katz on his socials: Website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/evanmarckatz/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@evanmarckatz/featured Go to https://www.evanmarckatz.com/trueloveknots and read the special report on the seven massive mistakes you’re making in dating. Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
The Secrets to Healthy, Longer, And Fun Relationships with Dating Expert Alana McKenzie Page
In this episode of the True Love Knots, we have Alana McKenzie Page, a dating coach based in Oregon. She took a long time to get married and experienced no success in dating, which led her to research why relationships are often unsuccessful. She now helps clients, especially women, navigate dating challenges and attract high-quality partners through teaching feminine energy techniques. Today, Alana and Maria chatted about the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual respect, and trust. They discuss self-reflection, re-focusing feminine energy, internalizing your value, and more! Standout Quotes: “I feel that younger women today know more what they want. But it doesn’t mean they’re making the right choices.” [Maria] “Everyone deserves love, no matter what their age, no matter what their childhood baggage. And so that’s what I’m passionate about helping people make whatever shifts they need to make in their lives to make love amazing for them.” “Re-focusing the energy in your life to be internally focused, so that when you have dating stress, or when you’re going to create your profile, or when you are going to have a conversation with the man in line at the grocery store, you are also able to focus internally.” “I really feel that people today need to understand that there are feminine men, but that doesn’t mean that they’re gay. And some women are masculine, but that doesn’t mean that they’re lesbian.” [Maria] “If you want an amazing committed relationship, aim for the slow burn. That’s what you do.” “Just have a conversation, learn more about this person, and have fun.” Key Takeaways: Focus on developing your feminine energy by learning to connect internally rather than seeking external validation. Pay attention to how potential partners make you feel about yourself through their words and actions, and avoid pursuing relationships that cause anxiety or insecurity. Take things slowly in dating by prioritizing quality conversations over rushing commitments. Aim for a “slow burn” to build strong foundations. Learn techniques for communicating vulnerably and emotionally to develop deeper rapport and connection with partners. Reflect on societal pressures that may be pushing your dating approach in an unfulfilling direction and make adjustments to find more empowering ways of relating to others. Episode Timeline: [00:52] Meet Alana McKenzie Page [10:27] How does Alana help women to have good relationships? [16:01] Feminine and Masculine Energy [18:41] What would Alana advise to her younger self? [23:45] Are instant gratification the reason why we are not being intentional in dating? Learn more about Alana McKenzie Page on her socials: Website: https://www.sovereign-dating.com/?r_done=1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alana-mckenzie-page-a3262073/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sovereigndating/featured Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
Empower Yourself: A Journey of Self-Care and Wellness with Beth Eisle
Is it possible for women to prioritize self-care, mental wellness, and healing while juggling life’s demands? Yes! Embracing physical fitness, healthy eating habits, and self-reflection can help women nurture their well-being and embark on a journey of healing and self-discovery. Addressing past traumas empowers women to cultivate resilience, inner strength, and a deeper sense of self-love and acceptance. In this episode, Maria is joined by Beth Eisle, and they will be talking about personal fitness journeys, challenges with body image in social media, healthy eating, women empowerment, and much more! Standout Quotes: “When you do an activity, you’re getting feedback, even when you’re not asking for it. That’s the feeling that makes you feel so good.” “If you could start admiring who you are and everything you’ve done in life, you just change your story, which is a very important thing.” “For women our age, the best is yet to come. For younger women, you are not alone.” Key Takeaways: Make time each day for physical activity, even if just a walk, to reap the mental and physical benefits of movement. Reflect on past experiences and traumas through journaling or therapy to process your emotions and gain a new perspective for personal growth. Challenge negative self-talk and comparisons to unrealistic standards by focusing on appreciating your own strengths and accomplishments. Episode Timeline: [00:14] Introducing the guest [05:14] The power of self-care [10:16] Embracing self-love and healthy habits [16:19] Finding your inner strength [20:50] Healing from trauma Learn more about Beth Eisle on her socials: Website: https://www.befitnwell.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beth-eisele-b7187316 Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150
Affordable Online Dating Courses: How One Love Expert Makes Her Coaching Accessible for All with Laurie Gerber
Wondering if there’s an age limit to love and intimacy? Navigating relationships after 50 can feel unfamiliar and challenging. Finding love and connection in later years, including identifying compatible partners and maintaining open communication, comes with challenges. It might feel overwhelming or uncertain but don’t despair. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by Dating Coach Laurie Gerber. They will be talking about navigating relationships and intimacy for individuals in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, overcoming dating obstacles, the importance of honesty and communication in long-term relationships, launching digital programs for accessible coaching, and embracing authenticity to find fulfilling connections. Standout Quotes: “Unfortunately, I don’t help couples when only one member is willing to work on it. It takes two people to make it work. If you don’t have that willingness to communicate and work on the relationship, it’s like banging your head against the wall—tiring and painful.” “Sometimes, the best path forward is helping one person navigate their way out of a relationship that isn’t serving them.” “The key is to continually nurture openness and honesty in a relationship, rather than letting it fade into complacency.” “Sometimes, it’s not that your partner changed or you changed, but rather, you stopped cultivating intimacy and having meaningful conversations.” “Dating is not frivolous, shallow, or a waste of time. It’s one of the most spiritual journeys there is, where you learn about yourself and others along the way.” “These men are available—smart, independent, and looking for companionship without the complications. They’re out there, ready to support and love you.” Key Takeaways: Prioritizing honesty and open communication to strengthen intimacy and evaluating potential partners based on compatibility and physical attraction, not just chemistry alone. Work on self-love and address your relationship patterns before blaming others or unrealistic standards. Believe in the possibility of fulfilling love, and do the necessary inner work to overcome obstacles and be present for a connection. Balance your time between career ambitions and openness to intimacy, ensuring you make room for potential partners. Use available resources such as coaching or counseling to gain relationship tools, and embrace the freedom of changing relationship norms to define love on your terms, regardless of age. Episode Timeline: [00:02] Introducing Laurie Gerber [01:44] Prioritizing Inner Wellness [06:55] The Importance of Mutual Effort [09:02] The Power of Truth [15:49] Reality Check on Finding True Connection [19:58] Threefold Approach to Relationships [29:37] Textual Intimacy [32:39] Laurie’s Program for Dating Success Learn more about Laurie Gerber on his socials: Website: https://lauriegerber.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GV0CHAIiSYk
Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone to Achieve More with Trey Sanders
Stepping out of one’s comfort zone is essential for personal growth and development. Embracing new challenges and experiences can help anyone expand their horizons, learn valuable lessons, and discover untapped potential within themselves. This journey of exploration and self-discovery ultimately leads to greater confidence, resilience, and fulfillment in life. In this episode of the True Love Knots Podcast, Maria is joined by serial entrepreneur and personal development expert, Trey Sanders. They will be talking about finding success by getting out of your comfort zone, personal growth, relationships, the importance of networking, and much more! Standout Quotes: “My growth, emotionally, mentally, and personally, has been tremendous. And I don’t know if I stayed in Florida that the growth would have been the same.” “If I hadn’t separated myself from the comfort of living in my hometown and being around that family, that comfort would have consumed me even more, and I would have never really grown as a person.” “I think networking is not about creating friends, but about creating relationships with a purpose.” Key Takeaways: Consider relocating to an unfamiliar place to push yourself out of your comfort zone and accelerate personal growth. Reflect on your mindset around major life decisions like relationships and family to ensure they align with your personal goals and value. Evaluate how you present yourself on dating apps and profiles to optimize approachability and highlight your most positive traits. Identify hobbies or activities you enjoy that also facilitate networking to build valuable professional and personal connections. Episode Timeline: [00:00] Introducing Trey Sanders [01:17] Professional development and golf in Las Vegas [07:45] Golf, real estate, and networking [14:12] Dating life and childhood experiences [24:52] Overcoming impostor syndrome [31:10] Personal growth and dating Learn more about Trey Sanders on his socials: Website: https://trey.therivlingroup.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/trey-sanders-ftw29420 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Treygolfrealtor Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDssQPFTJXo
Finding Yourself Again: Creative Ways to Thrive in the Next Chapter Of Life With Penny Fitzgerald
Are you feeling unsure about where your life is heading, especially as you get older? As a woman who’s juggled many roles over the years, you might find yourself with more time but less direction. But you’re not alone—many women feel this way. Join Maria and Penny on the True Love Knots Podcast as they chat about the ups and downs of aging, ways to stay confident and happy as you grow older, the importance of having supportive friends, chasing your dreams, and much more! Standout Quotes: “We all deserve to be finding ourselves again, or finding and providing and giving of ourselves in a different way or from a way that we had maybe forgotten along the way.” “I think with age comes wisdom that we are most of us are realizing that, you know, it’s more way more important to be giving and loving and real authentic with each other.” “I think when we lift each other, we feel good. It’s good all the way around.” Key Takeaways: As they age, women experience many changes and transitions, such as empty nesting, menopause, and rediscovering their passions, but finding community and sharing experiences can help with these changes. To stay fulfilled and engaged in life, it’s important to make time for self-care, joy, and pursuing dreams at any age. Maintaining gratitude, and optimism, and remembering childhood dreams and goals can motivate during challenging times. Episode Timeline: [00:02] Introducing the guest [01:25] A Career in the Wine Industry [04:03] Finding Purpose And Joy In Life [11:47] Aging Body And Confidence Among Women [17:18] Women are Leaders [18:56] Keeping Joy In life [23:22] Mental State In Order Learn more about Penny Fitzgerald on her socials: Website: https://pennyforyourshots.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/winechick/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/penny4yourshots/ Learn more about Maria Romano and True Love Knots at: Website: https://trueloveknots.com Email: [email protected] Phone: +1 702-501-4150 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eZOzDWSvIEU